So I have a server that has been running for about 3 weeks just fine, but today I decided I wanted to add in CKF and Steampunk. Before today I was at 19 mods and now that I've added these mods it still says loading 19 mods when I log in and none of the items are available from either mod. Does anyone have any idea what I might be doing won't here or if there's just an issue with these mods

And I have tested on a single player game and everything is there

The status info page for your mod load works off the last known information from a successfully started server. So as your server is setting up, downloading and installing new mods, the number of mod should eventually change. However, I'm not sure what CKF is, but I do know that Steampunk is a VERY resource sucking mod, so you may want to do a rebuild to force it to reinstall all the mods, including Steampunk to get the ball rolling from a good start.

I recommend doing a BACKUP of your server first though, just in case something should not go to plan.