any ideas how to get this map to load? i mean it's stuck at loading mods and restarts loading mods

It's a 2GB map, so when you first install it, it will continue on a restart loop for as long as it takes to download and install the map as ARK Server is dumb and thinks if the game takes too long to install a map, then it MUST have timed out, so restarts the server. Due to this, it sometimes takes a longish amount of time for a first start on a large map like Caballus.

Also, make sure that you toggled the map in the mods list to a map.

Umm i doesen't have caballus in my mod list but on workshop i see i have it subscribed? How to fix it and play normally? PLZ HELP

I found it by spelling it in the search list and telling the mod tab to install.

But as for playing normally, that map is ALL sorts of buggy... so you really can't unless you're a modder, get the source code, and work on it.