just set up a rust server, havent had one before. Is there anyone not busy that can help me set a mod up so i know what i'm doing?

Rust is sadly not one of my strong points, and as this forum is for community support. So your options are:

Wait for someone knowledgeable in the community to come to the forum to check.

Join the Discord, and in the Welcome Room assign yourself the Rust Role, and check in the Rust Support room.

Submit an email to support.